Today’s guest post comes from Steven Rice from True Spiritual Awakening. I was introduced to Steve when I joined a blogging group on Facebook. I learned a great deal from his writings, and way of looking at things. I’m particularly excited about this post, because of the topic of discussion. Please, don’t forget to share this post with others, as well as share your thoughts and feedback in the comments. I know he’ll be glad to hear from each of you. So without further ado, let’s Welcome our next Guest Fellow Releaser!
“I Didn’t Know Anyone Noticed”
The other day, I was watching the show Undercover Boss. This is a show produced in the United States. In it, the CEO or managing executive of a major company goes “undercover” to perform everyday tasks in his or her own company.
Without exception, these experiences challenge the manager or executive and the employees with whom they interact.
As I was watching, I was struck with how significantly a single word of appreciation or recognition impacts a person. Often with a single expression of appreciation, from the boss (who at this time has revealed him or herself to the employee), the employee becomes emotional and then says something like, “I didn’t know anyone noticed” or “It feels so good to know the company appreciates what I do.” And then, they often follow it with this powerful declaration: I’ll never forget this!
We are all the same. We all desire approval. We all want to know that we matter. We all want to know that we are significant and that we are seen.
”We all want to know we matter. We want to know we are significant…that we are seen” Tweet
Every Word Has Power
Every word has power. The power of a single word can transform…
…a life
…a society
…our world
Think about the transformational power of each of these words.
- abolition
- emancipation
- liberty
- justice
- equality
- prosperity
- peace
What are the single words that bring power to your life? What are the words that you bring to the lives of others?
Handing Out “Never-Forget-This” Moments
No matter who you are–boss or employee, parent or child, teacher or student–you have the power to hand out “never-forget-this” moments.
Sometimes you will recognize the opportunity ahead of time. Sometimes you won’t, but it may present itself unexpected. Seize each opportunity.
Speak the words. Take the time to notice each person you interact with. Take the time to express to them what you see. It could change their life.
I remember one time several years ago, I went into a fast food restaurant for lunch. There was a middle aged guy busing tables. He had the most helpful disposition and cheerful outlook.
Later, as I was eating, I told the manager that he had an amazing employee working there for him. “I know,” he said, adding, “he’s one of my best. I’ll let him know you said so, though.”
The manager actually misunderstood which employee I was referring to, and he told the kid at the counter what a good job he was doing. A week later (and every time I went in that store afterward), the boy greeted me with a cheerful “hello” and helpful smile. His level of service jumped dramatically.
All because his manager had passed on a compliment on the job he was doing. It didn’t matter that it was someone else I had complimented, the counter attendant rose to meet the expectation of the service I had commended him for.
In your own life, you have the opportunity to transform someone else’s by the simple words you speak.
What’s Really Going On?
It’s not just the words we speak that make the difference.
We all have a specific image of ourselves. These self-images are created from the data we gather from those around us and from our own minds.
The problem is that most of us have a badly-conditioned mind. We think things like, I’m not good enough. I’m not smart enough. I’m not pretty enough.
Other people don’t see us through the same lenses with which we view ourselves. Therefore, each of us has the opportunity to be a mirror to each other of who we really are.
When someone holds up a mirror to you and you see that I am good enough. I am smart enough. I am pretty enough, everything changes.
The bottom line is be a mirror to others of what you see and they will cherish you. They will appreciate you. Most importantly, they will love you. In that reflection, you will see yourself exactly as you are…exactly as you were meant to be–pure Love.
”In that reflection, you will see yourself exactly as you are…exactly as you were meant to be–pure Love.” Tweet
Because there is power in a single word.
Let’s Chat about the power of a single word….
What are the single words that bring power to your life? What are the words that you bring to the lives of others? What are your thoughts towards the power of words?
BIO: Steve Rice is the owner of True Spiritual Awakening. He is an author and entrepreneur committed to creating a well-lived life and helping others to do the same. You can follow him on twitter or connect on Facebook
May you find yourselves Releasing powerful words that uplift others, and Master your life ahead of you.
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I love this post! I can never underestimate the power of kindness, whether it’s toward myself or someone else.
A simple word of appreciation, a compliment, courtesy, or gratitude can impact lives in ways we rarely think about. The same is true for a negative thought, word, or action, and so I am careful to treat myself and others with respect and friendship.
Some time ago I wrote in my blog about an Office Team survey that asked managers and employees how they prefer to be recognized and the perhaps not so surprising results- the number one preferred form of recognition for employees was an in person thank you! Tied for first place was passing along praise to upper management. The results of this survey certainly support the thoughts you’ve shared here.
Thanks for the wisdom and inspiration!
Chrysta
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Chrysta,
Thanks for sharing your perspective on this topic. I really liked the survey you sited. I would have expected that some sort of monetary remuneration would have been on the list. It really goes to show how powerful saying the right thing to the right person can be!
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Thank you for your remarkable contribution to this post, Chrysta. As well as for welcoming Steve with the first comment!
You never cease to amaze me and I am forever grateful for the connection, encouragement, and support that you offer to me and “The Release”. All the best to you, my friend! 
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Great post! There is so much power in encouragement! Thanks for guest posting Steven! You have great talent and I can see why Deeone wanted to share your work with his readers! Keep up the great work!
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Thanks, Burl. I appreciate the kind words of encouragement. I am glad that this post resonated with you as a RMT reader. This is exactly what I was going for. I always try to write directly to the reader and hope that it connects in the way I intend for it to. I’m grateful to Deeone for allowing me the opportunity to be a guest in his “house” and I hope that I can come back.
have a great week!
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My “house” is your “house”, my friend. Of course you’ll be back! Are you kidding me… this was great stuff!
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Thanks for supporting “The Release” and my dear friend Steve, Burl. I really appreciate you my friend. I’m daily grateful for the connection and the new-found friendship we’ve made in such a short time. I’m certain that it will only get stronger from here on out! Cheers and Blessing to you buddy!
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No problem Deeone! If you ever want to try your hand at some “short version blogging” I would love to have you over to the Startstuff blog for a guest post.
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Hey thanks Burl,
That would be awesome bud! I’m actually in the works of shortening my blog as well. Hence the reason I changed the About page. I’ll come up with something and get it to you… is the email attached to your Gravatar the best to use to contact you?
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Yes, that is the best e-mail for me. One thing that might be good is how you came to start releasingmetoday.com
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Great job on this post, Steve!
I went to go and catch up with all my messages and emails, and intended to come back and post my feedback; it appears a few awesome peeps have already beat me to the punch!
It’s all good though… here’s what I wanted to say to you, my friend.
First and foremost, Thank you for contributing to “The Release”. I am totally honored to have you here. Not only did you bring the fire with this entry, but you did so on one of my most favorite topics. I have often thought about doing a post on The power of our words; and still may write one at some point. However, your message was right in order of what “The Release” is all about.
I wasn’t always aware of the power our words carried… and so I used my words sparingly! I know that in the past I had often said things to people that weren’t offering ways to build them up and that’s because I didn’t take into consideration the place that individual was in their life story. So it was easy to give them “a piece of my mind”. I have since learned that if used correctly and with thought, our words can be just as effective and also build that person up to do better and be better.
This truly was a phenomenal lesson and I hope many people take the opportunity to breath in the words they read here.
Most excellent job, my friend! I’m so ecstatic to have you here. Wishing you all the best in your present and future endeavors. Cheers!
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Great post, Steve. So many of us forget how powerful an A.R.K. is (Act of Random Kindness). Just a simple word to someone who may be going thruough something in their lives cna do wonders. Good job.
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Thank you for the kind welcome to RMT, Dwayne. You are right. Kindness is such a simple thing, but we don’t dole it out liberally enough. You never know when you reach out too inspire others, what they’re going through or how you will impact their life.
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Hey Dwayne and Welcome to the Release, my friend!
I know that Steve already welcomed you, but I wanted to personally thank you for sharing your thoughts here. And man, loved the acronym! That’s powerful stuff! I don’t know if you came up with it or not, but that’s definitely a keeper!
Feel free to stop in anytime! You’re always welcome. Cheers! 
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Amazing post, Steve! =) We often wonder how we can make a difference in the world and we forget about those day to day moments. This is a great reminder that it doesn’t have to be anything grand. We can leave our mark on the world for how we are remembered. I remember that being my attitude when I used to work at a supermarket. I tried to make as many people smile as I could, whether it was with a smile of my own or with words! =)
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Hola, Samantha…long time, no see…holidays were busy for me, so didn’t stay too connected to my cyber-friends. Hope you had a wonderful holiday season.
That’s exactly what i was talking about in my post, my friend…taking time and putting out the intention to give other people the gift of a smile or a kind word or a kind gesture. Thanks for sharing your experience and how you put it to work practically in your life.
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Samantha,
Your spirit shines through your words. That’s one of the things I’ve always loved about you. There aren’t many people that are able to share with the world their incredible personality over the cyber waves, but you do it effortlessly. Thank you for your contribution to Steve’s wonderful post. I appreciate you and have certainly missed your presence online. Safe travels back home, my friend.
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Steve, thank you.
I too am moved and touched and ofttimes “saved” by those small things that someone did without knowing how much I needed just what they gave. This seems to be the message of the day in all of the posts that I’m being drawn to.
Thank you.
Betsy
Wonderful, Betsy! I’m so grateful that mine was one of the posts that you found today. Your testimonial of how the kindness of others has impacted you is really encouraging! This is exactly what I was going for. We never know when our kind word will change someone’s life.
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Hi Betsy and Welcome to “The Release”!
I just wanted to officially welcome you to the site. It’s a pleasure to have you here. I’m so glad that you were drawn here today and found exactly what you needed. Feel free to come back anytime. All the best to you!
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Wonderful post Steve and I love the Undercover Boss. I can so relate to them.
I’ve said many a time that I would much rather have someone who appreciated me and recognized the work that I did then the money any day. I know that may seem odd but when you get up every morning and enjoy going to work that just changes your whole attitude about things. If more employers realized this, their employees would do a much better job and with a smile on their faces.
It can be those kinds words we shared or that smile we gave someone or that helpful bit of advice that made their day. Sometimes you don’t realize the impact you have on others but it’s so true.
Wonderful message in today’s post so thank you for that. Great choice for guest bloggers Deeone. Oh yeah!
~Adrienne
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I agree…it’s one of the most powerful lessons that managers/bosses forget….the power of a simple word of acknowledgement.
Appreciate your kind compliments and your input.
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Hey Adrienne,
Thank you as usual for your contribution to “The Release”! I’m with you on that as well… give me appreciation any day over money. The money will be gone as soon as it comes, if one isn’t the saving type. But appreciation tends to linger in the heart and the mind of those that receive it. It will certainly caused the one receiving it to put their best foot forward.
I also totally agree with you about Steve. He did a phenomenal job on this post. As well, as being a guest. I recently read a post today (and you may have read it) where the author Hajra discussed the etiquette of guest bloggers. All I can say, is that she must have had Steven Rice in mind when writing that post. I can hardly keep up with him; he’s on it!
He’s definitely on the list of being amongst the best guest having ever posted here on “The Release”. Thanks for your lovely thoughts, my friend.
And to you Steve, thank you for doing such an outstanding job with this wonderful post! Rock On, my friend!!
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Hi Steven
This was a great post. I wrote on a similar topic a few weeks ago. Like you mentioned, even the smallest compliment or kind word can make a world of difference to someone. We never know what is happening in someone’s life and just one kind statement or compliment could change everything for them. I always try to say kind things when the opportunity arises, provided it is genuine of course! I think we underestimate the value of these little things and they go left unsaid when they could make a world of difference — the example you gave about the compliment is a perfect one.
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Hey Kelli,
Thanks for dropping in and leaving your thoughts on Steve’s most excellent post here! You always bring a powerful punch to each of the post here at “The Release” with your feedback; and while I typically allow the guest to handle the comments for the most part, I simply want to let those of you that welcome my guest know how much I truly appreciate the support.
Since you’re becoming quite the regular here at “The Release”… I couldn’t go without doing the same for you. So a HUGE thank you, my friend. It is SO greatly appreciated! 
Thanks so much, Kelli. I think you bring up a great point here about being genuine. I think this can be a real challenge at first, because we are conditioned for a “this for that” exchange…kind of like “You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours”.
People sense when we are disingenuous. We all hate to be manipulated and showing kindness can become a bitter pill to swallow if it’s tinged with the poison of an ulterior motive.
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Awesome! I am looking forward to it!
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You and me both, buddy!
I will begin working on it today… and hopefully get it to you by mid afternoon. Thanks for the opportunity, my friend.
Deeone, this came to me today (1/26/2012)…were you responding to someone else? or did the computer have a glitch and repost it for some reason?
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Sorry about that, bud. I actually responded to it wrongly last week, and was correcting where it was located under my comments.
Hi Steve,
That is a wonderful insight you have made. Everyone does indeed desire approval and recognition. We all want to know that we are significant and what we does makes a difference.
Indeed words, the right words at the right time and place, can even have a life-changing impact. You never know, someone may be depressed and a few words of encouragement may be what they need to have hope or to keep going. Alternatively, a few words of praise can dramatically improve the someone’s performance as your story shows.
The words that brings power to my life are “love,” “purpose” and “perseverance.” Love reminds me of my motivations. Purpose reminds me of my goals. And perseverance reminds me not to give up.
I also try to encourage people where I can and to look for things to give genuine praise about. It does not have to be a major accomplishment, it is the small and little things that matter. It is always nice to recognize the efforts of others.
Thank you for writing this lovely article Steve and thank you Deeone for sharing it!
Irving the Vizier
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Thanks so much, Irving. I appreciate you sharing your insight about the 3 words that bring power to your life. I like that idea. I’ll have to give that more thought in my own situation.
Appreciate your kind comments and the insight you provided.
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Hey Irving,
Thanks for the wonderful feedback, my friend. It’s always a pleasure to see you here. You bring such an enlightenment to “The Release”! Like Steve, I love your choice of three powerful words, but the thing about your comment that stood out the most to me is something that I firmly believe in as well. “…it is the small and little things that matter.”
That statement is “RMT’s” mission quote, also found in the header and on the about page. “Celebrate the smallest of victories….” In many aspect of life I think that it’s the smallest things that make the biggest difference. That’s exactly why I practice celebrating any and every victory that comes before me… it makes room for bigger and better ones in the future. Cheers mate… your feedback is greatly appreciated.
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Loved the post Steve & Deeone!
I could so well relate to so many lines you mentioned above, as the power of a single word, no matter how small it may be can change life altogether. It changes the person who hears it, and it changes us as well- as we are able to speak our mind and I guess it makes us much better as we are able to express ourselves.
At times we may not be able to realize the power of our words and what effect they will have on another person. It may mean a small deed or thing for us, but for the other it may mean the world, everything. So, always take care of others. For me, I love being generous as it helps me express openly about my feelings and deeds and connect with others.
I like your lines in the end- The bottom line is be a mirror to others of what you see and they will cherish you. They will appreciate you. Most importantly, they will love you. In that reflection, you will see yourself exactly as you are…exactly as you were meant to be–pure Love.- So very true!!
Thanks for sharing and the wonderful reminder. Have a great weekend
BTW- Love the new look and change to the blog- the background looks nice Deeone
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting, my friend! Your kindness and generosity come across very clearly online. I am so thankful for your friendship online. Your insights and point of view are helpful.
Wish you the very best weekend too!
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Thanks for the kind words Steve- I appreciate you and Deeone for your friendship as well
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And we you, my friend….
I am so grateful for the connection. You always have been supportive and generous with your feedback, as well as offering me help whenever I needed it. That type of friendship should never be taken lightly, and it’s for that very reason, I never have taken it that way.
I know exactly what you mean when you said, “At times we may not be able to realize the power of our words and what effect they will have on another person.” While we should never give that kind word to someone expecting anything in return; we should be always mindful that our words indeed could render someone a smile, gesture, make their day, or whatever. That’s why it’s important that we choose what and how we say the things we share with others.
Thank you as well for the compliment on the background, I’m sure my dear friend Jk Allen from Growth Effect will certainly appreciate that. I will definitely relay the message. Have a wonderful weekend as well, Harleena!
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Hi Steve,
Words are incredibly powerful. Unfortunately I don’t think most people realize how powerful they are. We must choose our words carefully, especially when dealing with children. An unkind word spoken by a loved one can remain in a child’s mind for years. I guess the same is true with adults, isn’t it?
My company gives bonuses to employees every year, across the board. I of course enjoy getting my bonus each year. But what I really like is when someone takes the time to contact my boss to let them know they appreciate the work that I did for them. That is truly special. Of course, I will still accept my bonus too…
I really enjoyed this post. Thanks for sharing.
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Hi, Jamella!
Thanks so much for taking the time to comment on Deeone’s blog.
I love this: “I don’t think most people realize how powerful they are.”
The words we speak–and even the ones we leave unspoken–are powerful.
Glad you enjoyed my post. Hope to connect with you more online.
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Hey Jamella,
I just wanted to thank you personally for sharing your thoughts on Steve’s post. I couldn’t agree with you and Steve more on both of your comments here. The words we consciously and unconsciously share in our day to day lives carry more weight than many of us would like to admit that they do. What I consider more now than ever, is that the words I speak will go out accomplishing exactly what they were meant to convey. So in knowing this I realize that I have the power to build up or tear down another individual.
For many, I feel this is too much power for them to have, because they fail to realize that they possess it; and choose to use it only to tear other’s down. Yet, we each have this power whether we ought to have it or not; whether we choose to know of it’s power or not.
The thing that many fail to understand though is that whatever we send out comes back to us full circle. That’s why I think Steve’s post is so powerful in the sense of how we offer other’s appreciation in our lives. Humans are so quick to tell or share the wrongness done, but hesitate to shine that same light when there is rightness done by that same individual. Sharing the good of an individual should become second nature practices in our daily lives; we should constantly look for the good in other’s. Even if they don’t possess much of it, highlighting what good they do will cause people to perform on that level more to get that type of recognition more. Wouldn’t you both agree?
Thanks again for your feedback, my friend. Have a fantastic week ahead!
Greetings: and welcome Steve!
Great post–this is so very true–words hold far more power than many people ever dare to realize. So many people do not understand that–they feel that they can just “fling” around words at their choosing; spewing negative words at those around them and feeling that they are well within their right simply because **they** are mad or **they** are going to ‘speak their mind’ no matter what–not even caring about the emotional and mental impact that their words have on others. This happens i the personal realm as well as in the professional realm. Yet these same people would not expect anything but positive words to be said towards them. –Why are people like this?? I won’t ever understand it. All I do know is that what you said is very true Steve: words have the power to make or break a person’s spirit and a person’s self-perception, and people everywhere need to become more conscious of that fact. If people want loving, kind, and positive words and vibes to come to them, then they must practice the art of giving the very same out–not just some of the time, but all of the time, every minute of every day. It’s not always easy–in fact, it’s a whole lot of work–but having and keeping that awareness and respect of the power that a single word can have on someone and handling the tongue in alignment with that awareness **always always always** pays a great benefit in the long run.
This post was very timely–just what I needed to read in this very moment. Thank you Steve and thank you Deeone so much for sharing.
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You’ve shared a very passionate response to Steve’s post, Makeba. Thank you for that, my friend. I SO agree with you that Steve has delivered a timeless post here. Our choice of words are a HUGE part of our personal growth.
You’re right throughout the thoughts you’ve shared. We need to really get out of the habit of expecting things that we ourselves aren’t giving in return. This was truly one of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned in better understanding and letting “me” go. I used to get so outraged when someone would respond to me negatively, especially if I responded to them positively.
What I wouldn’t take into consideration is not only how I was treating that individual, but also how I was treating all people. What we send out into the Universe isn’t just going to come back from the individual we sent the energy too. We get back everything… and I do mean everything that we send out, whether good or bad; it all gets returned. And there is simply no way of knowing when, where, from what, or from whom, it will get returned.
Once we accept that to be the case, and then become mindful of the stuff we are sending out, correcting and making changes to ourselves first; then it becomes more real to us, then we become open to better practices and make them a part of our daily lives. People who aren’t able to see that their energy and words are causing other’s hurt or pain, aren’t able to wrap their thoughts around ‘what they send out, gets returned’. They simply don’t want to believe it.
If they were to believe in it, that would mean they had a lot of stuff coming back that they were going to be held accountable for. Who, sending out negativity and bad vibes, would ever want to own up to that? Nobody. Yet, it doesn’t stop those that practice negative thinking and speaking from continuously doing so. Does it?
I would say they can’t help it, but that’s not true… they don’t want to help it. They don’t want that part of their lives to change… I’m learning that it’s extremely hard to change a daily practice. That’s why a lot of people don’t do it, and think that it can’t be done.
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Hi Deeone & Steve. What a powerful article. I love the example of the employee rising to the level of expectation. Learning to recognize that almost everyone we meet is more confused and scared than they show on the surface allows us to support them in the simplest of ways. A single word can show absolute compassion, and help others realize they are not alone. When we recognize this, we meet opportunity after opportunity to prove it is true. Prove it to whom? To OURSELVES!
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It is fascinating how we become so self-focused that we don’t realize everyone else is exactly the same. Everyone has fears and insecurities. And we all have the power to bolster their confidence and allay those fears with a kind and encouraging word. Thanks for stopping by and contributing to the conversation.
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Absolutely Rob!
What we don’t know freaks us out, and we are driven to be “in the know”. Sharing a kind word or remark allows people to “know” exactly what you feel, and also makes the individual feel better about themselves. That’s the kind of energy we are meant to send out. Lao Tzu puts it perfectly when he stated, “From caring comes courage.” If we can learn to see people as we see ourselves, wandering in the wilderness trying to find answers; we are then able to meet them better where we need to meet them. And that comes from sharing our compassion for ourselves with them. And I love how you stated, “Prove it to whom? TO OURSELVES” That’s powerful, my friend! That’s the only individual I’m proving myself too… competing with… and teaching how to live. If I love me the way that I say I do; I am then able to love other’s in that same way, better. And the lessons I share will be through my daily living. Phenomenal feedback, Rob! Thanks!
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Masaru Emoto (江本勝, Emoto Masaru?, b. July 22, 1943, Yokohama, Japan) is an author known for his controversial claim that if human thoughts are directed at water before it is frozen, images of the resulting water crystals will be beautiful or ugly depending upon whether the thoughts were positive or negative. Emoto claims this can be achieved through prayer, music or by attaching written words to a container of water. – from the movie “What the bleep do we know? One of my favorite movies; it opened my eyes wide open
ps: put “Hidden Messages in the water – What the bleep do we know?” in YouTube search bar.
Thank you!
Akos
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1-0ulKgmio&feature=related
Thanks Akos!!
Man, that’s totally neat! I saw the one that you were referring too. At least I think it was. Was a movie clip with Gillian Anderson in it from the X-Files? That’s the first clip I clicked on. But I found this one in the sidebar of “Hidden Messages in the Water”.
That is very fascinating though. It’s amazing actually! I find it astonishing that our energy are able to be captured in water, but I guess it’s something like a ripple effect, wouldn’t you agree? I mean, if sound waves have the ability to cause a ripple; wouldn’t energy do the same thing? I’m definitely not one for physics, I actually never took it… but it just goes to show how powerful our energy is, if that’s the case.
Thanks for that awesome share, man! That was remarkable to have learned about. Much appreciated!!
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Gillian Anderson in it from the X-Files?”???? LOL!
That’s not the one I was referring to.
but the “hidden messages in the water.
Check out the movie “What the bleep do we know?”
it will drop your jaw. I know scientist can’t recover mentally from what they’ve discovered.
Great post Deeone and Steve! You guys are masterminding !
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Oops!
Ok, I think I have it now, I’ll have to check it out. It looks like it’s an hour long. I did find a couple of short snibbets though. And from that it looks like it would be worth watching all the way through. Is this part of it? http://youtu.be/nMUjfi5hbhU
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Yes it is.
The actual is 150 min. long
cheers man!
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Cool. Thanks for sharing, Akos. I have that movie on my Netflix queue, and with your top recommendation, I’ll have to watch it soon.
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One word CAN really make a difference! It’s such a simple yet seemingly hard thing for a lot of people to do!
I’d like to add that one simple action, as you’ve alluded, can too make a difference. I like to tell this story which still brings me to tears – one day I was walking down the street minding my own business when a lady was walking towards me. I thought nothing of her really but simply smiled as she walked past. She stopped me and said “Thank You.” I give the Universe thanks all the time for that one simple action because we’d never know how that really changed her world. (teary eyed – told ya! LOL). I should really tell that story on the blog soon
Steve, you no doubt brought it BIG TIME with this post. I enjoyed reading (and sharing) this one my friend! Thanks to Deeone for having you as a guest here!
Talk later guys!
~Kesha
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Absolutely! Great story. You should def tell it on the blog. Here’s one that will make you tear up too.
I was at a conference in DC a few years ago. It was January and cold. We walked about 2 blocks from the hotel to a diner. When we got there, we found that a short woman had joined us. She was obviously unkept. There were about 10 of us at the table.
As we sat down, my friend, “John” looked pulled out a chair for her and said, “Everyone, this is Miss Alice”
She sat quietly next to John and drank her soup. As soon as she was done, she got up to leave. John pulled the coat of his chair and wrapped Miss Alice’s tiny frame in his hulking leather jacket.
She started to protest and he said, “that’s okay. I have another one at home.”
Reminds me of a quote from Mother Teresa: “In the poor I have seen Christ in all his distressing disguises.”
John is my hero.
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See what you’ve done Steve – I’m tearing up again!
And I would have been tearing up at the table if I were there too! I love it when people show compassion towards others. It makes me feel soooo good inside.
Thanks for sharing your story too Steve!
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Both of you got me tearing up!
Kesha, thank you for that delightful comment! The story was definitely the icing! I’ve had a few guest post here over the last couple of months, and each one of them and the feedback from them; have given not only my readers a point of view, but also given me some incredibly soul feeding lessons. Steve really let loose on this one. Oh… and yeah, Kesha… definitely write that post!
Steve, MAN… I declare, you two have seriously got me over here tearing up! Man, thank you for this approach to something we all should be reminded of, this was an incredible reminder. I think you have a future post there, too. Pure Awesomeness!
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Wow…what a powerful post! Yes, every single word is very powerful. We all have experienced the power of them in various ways. It truly is amazing how much energy we send out from a simply word or statement. The way we say them, the moment we state them, our body language when we say them and so much more determines the vibrations they send out and the way people perceive them. I am a very friendly person and simply say, “Hello” to most people that I pass and it is so lovely to see some people light up with a glow in their eyes.
People need more kindness. I firmly believe that this will make for a more welcoming world and our words can be either kind or otherwise. It is clearly a choice. This article surely encourages people to make the choice that is just what we need. Thanks for sharing your thoughts Steve.
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Good Day Joanne,
Thanks for such a wonderful response to Steve’s post! You are absolutely right too! Every single word we share should be one that goes out to build other’s up. When we become mindful of this power of our words, we are then able to better choose the ones we send out to others. The world is definitely in need of more kindness, and despite the feeling of resistance that sometimes come with being a person that sees the good in life; we should always aspire to be as good as we can be. We become better I believe, when we become aware. I am a living witness that a person can change their perceptions and apply that awareness to their life causing a ripple affect of better life practices. I wasn’t always one of those that looked on the bright sight of things; and I most definitely didn’t pass on empowering compliments onto people that I didn’t think weren’t deserving of them. However, with time and becoming mindful that I was creating my world with my thoughts and my words; I’ve become 100% better in sharing words of kindness with others.
Thank you for sharing such an empowering feedback to the post! You are a continual inspiration, my friend. Stay Awesome!
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Hi Steve,
It is amazing how one little random act of kindness can really make someone’s day. You also never really know what people are going through in their lives and a few kind words can go a really long way.
Those little things are important. Small acts of kindness might go much further than you think, that’s for sure.
My wife and I have tried this experiment lately. Whenever you encounter someone really rude or grumpy, just kill them with kindness. Works every time. They often go from sourpuss grunting grump to all smiles and very talkative. Funny how that works, huh?
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Good Day Craig and Welcome to the Release, my friend!
Thanks for stopping in and for sharing your thoughts to Steve’s post!
Your comment reminds me of a saying that my grandmother instilled in me, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover, when you haven’t taken the time to crack open the pages to read what’s inside.” When she used to share with me these words, I had no idea that someone had already quoted the saying, but her way of wording it has always followed me throughout my life.
We simply do not know what other’s are enduring in their lives, that’s why it’s incredibly important for us to treat people as though they were a member of our own body. I wouldn’t crush my own hand in a door jab, or stab myself in the back; so by looking at it from this light it becomes difficult for me to treat other’s harshly as well.
I must say, I’ve never tried looking at it from the experiment you and your wife are now practicing. I have simply ignored rude and grumpy people in the past, but I think that I may now just try it that way. That’s too funny!
But definitely another way of looking at it, that’s for sure! Thanks for the tip!
It’s great to have you over here, buddy! Please feel free to come back anytime!
Deeone recently posted this awesomeness..The 7 Keys of Greatness: What makes the Great great?
That is a great way to “play” through life. I love the idea of the experiment with the grouchy lady! Very cool. It’s a subtle shift in energy that we put out, but it has powerful impact on the people that we interact with on a daily basis!
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that’s so right Deeone
i was reading an article saying how the words we use affects our mindset to a great extent, thank you for sharing
I totally agree with you, Farouk! The words we choose say more about us than a lot of people could ever imagine. That’s why it’s always smart to choose them wisely. Thanks for stopping by man!
I really love this post Steve. I agree with everything you say, I just want to add a small thing to it. People for some reason forget that a small act of kindness may affect their life too. My mother always says “You Get What You Give”.
Thank you Steve and Deeone for posting this great article,
Daniel
I couldn’t agree with you more, Daniel. Steve really did do a great job with this post. Thank you for sharing the lesson your mother gave you with us. I think she was right on point with this. Everything we send out surely comes back full circle. So very true!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, man!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting. You are right–what we put out in the world comes back to us. It’s sometimes hard to recognize how all the pieces are interwoven. For me, it’s about creating a life habit that makes kindness a way of life.
You are awesome bud! Thanks for checking back in on the post. I really appreciate that.
I hope you have a fantastic week ahead! Cheers!
Hi Deeone,
Interesting post! Very profoundly coined. You are right, we certainly reap multiplied what we sow. Printed words leave tracks, but “Spoken Words” leave impression.
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